About me

About me

Welcome to theartofselfhelp.com

My “WHYs”

At the age of 30 I started to get interested on Self Help and Personal Development, the first reason was that I broke up with my ex girlfriend after a 7 years story, the second was that I wasn’t satisfied at all with my job.

You know, when things start to go wrong, you feel frustrated and you feel like it is your fault and you must change something, and this is what happened with me. I started to look for some new motivation, I read many articles and books about how to get the best for myself.

Almost 10 years passed from that day, and I’m still learning, but I recognized that all the information I found are connected with each other and usually there are many common points.

It doesn’t matter if you are looking for professional growth or to improve your seduction skills, what you learn and what you make part of yourself, will always lead to the same direction.

After discovering NLP, I took part to a very expensive course (around 2500 €) that lasted one year, it made significant changes in my behavior, but I felt it wasn’t still enough.

I wanted more, so I continued reading Self Help and seduction books, I always wanted more and more information, and day after day I started to see some results in every field of my life, starting from the ones I wasn’t really satisfied from.



After I started to get results, my closest friends started asking me advises about how to deal with their problems, like I’m the wisest person they knew. It was an amazing feeling to help them, both by suggesting them a way to solve their problem, or simply listening to them and asking the right questions in order to make them think to their problem from another point of view they didn’t take in consideration before.



Even if I don’t know you, I hope that this page can help you to move to the right direction.

I’m not a psychologist, but for sure I can tell you if I faced your same issue in the past or I can suggest you the books, websites or videos which have been useful for me.

If you ever need a hand or have any questions, feel free to leave them below and I will be more than happy to help you out.

All the best,



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