What to say to girls
You are in a disco or in a pub.
You see a woman you like, you come closer and…
Think about what you can say not to be trivial.
I don’t know about you, but especially in adolescence, this situation has happened to me dozens, if not hundreds of times.
Although it may seem obvious, it is not at all. For many men, shyness, and fear of failing mean that instead of approaching a woman, they give up without even trying.
This process, in the long run, can lead to real barriers that hinder men and prevent them from having a satisfying love life.
For this reason, I decided to dedicate a post to this topic: What to say to a girl – hold an interesting conversation.
Why do you want to meet her?
Before asking yourself what to say to that girl, you should ask yourself why do you want to meet her?
If you go to talk to a woman and you don’t know why you want to talk to her, then the problem is not about the topics, but about motivation.
If you go to her because you like her, you already have a few words in mind.
Surely between you and you are thinking: “how cute she is!” or “that dress looks great on you!”
Well, you already have a couple of words to say.
Contrary to what men sometimes believe, women often enjoy being approached and complimented.
Don’t you think that a woman spends hours at the hairdresser, putting on her makeup, and getting ready and then annoying her if a man, with the necessary manners, introduces himself and gives her a compliment?
It may happen that she does not want to be approached at that moment, or that she is waiting for someone.
But you can’t know this if you don’t come to talk to her.
And if her answer was negative, at least you tried.
The game of Gazes
Nothing prevents you from looking for her before approaching her.
You must know that the gaze is very important and can make a difference.
A woman who crosses your gaze may communicate interest, even before you get close to talking to her.
If you meet her gaze and she keeps eye contact, this can mean she likes you.
Knowing that a woman is interested in you makes everything much easier.
You would feel confident and would have less difficulty speaking openly with girls, thus being more brisk and likable.
If you knew you had a good chance of success, what would you do?
How would you communicate?
Imagine two similar situations:
1) You meet her gaze, and she keeps her gaze. You feel confident and approaching her keeping eye contact and smiling. You talk to her.
2) You go to her without first knowing if she noticed you or not. You talk to her.
Do you believe that your posture while walking in its direction would be the same? Do you think your tone of voice would have the same confidence?
There are those who believe that getting close to a girl is a very complicated thing and spends a lot of time continuing to think: “What to say to the girls?”
I read “magic formulas” to conquer girls, sentences that have an effect if pronounced by me, but if pronounced by another person they may have the opposite effect.
I advise you to read my posts:
Free NLP Techniques
Reading them you will learn that the words you say are worth only 7% of the communication.
You will understand that a consummate seducer phrase said in the wrong tone will make you a jester instead of a seducer.
Your goal is to communicate consistently, that is, words must be in harmony with the tone and body language.
If you add the right self-esteem to all this, what you say is of little importance.
What to say to girls
Here we are, if after reading the previous chapters you still give importance to this question, I probably have not succeeded in making you understand that what you say is only relatively important.
There is actually no magic formula for pleasure, there is only a combination of components that can make you interesting in the eyes of a girl (or woman).
Unfortunately, this depends on many factors. Since there is no standard person and we are all different from each other, women are different from each other in the same way.
An effect phrase said to a woman can have a null effect in some cases, but the very high value in others.
My suggestion is to trust your instincts and emotions.
In fact, women communicate in a totally different way than men.
Their brains are constantly inundated with emotions, and if you can understand how they affect the rational mind of women, then it will also be easy to empathize quickly.
Have you ever heard of this technique?
A famous Pick-up Artist known as Gambler’s nickname claims that through this technique it is possible to conquer any girl (or woman).
This way, as I explained earlier, you don’t need to rack your brains to think about what to say to the girls.
In fact, what allows a woman to decide whether you can be the right man for her or just someone who disturbs her while having fun are the emotions you make her feel.
His emotions may be somehow positively influenced by certain actions.
If you want to deepen this topic, I suggest you take a look at this video.
Richard La Ruina (AKA Gambler) in Stealth Attraction explains how:
- Speak seductively with women.
- Use the right body language.
- Create a strong sexual attraction.
- Understanding the psychology of attraction and rapid seduction.
The advice I have given you comes from:
- my experience;
- information I have collected over the years from books, forums, and online videos.
The information that I have summarized in this article is the result of hours and hours of research, reading, and, above all, practice!
Don’t forget that practice is the aspect that will make you credible and self-confident.
If you want to deepen what is written in this article, I invite you to take a look at Richard La Ruina’s Stealth Attraction.
Have a great day,